xfs: use XFS_IFORK_Q to determine the presence of an xattr fork

Modify xfs_ifork_ptr to return a NULL pointer if the caller asks for the
attribute fork but i_forkoff is zero.  This eliminates the ambiguity
between i_forkoff and i_af.if_present, which should make it easier to
understand the lifetime of attr forks.

While we're at it, remove the if_present checks around calls to
xfs_idestroy_fork and xfs_ifork_zap_attr since they can both handle attr
forks that have already been torn down.

Signed-off-by: Darrick J. Wong <djwong@kernel.org>
Reviewed-by: Dave Chinner <dchinner@redhat.com>