net/ipv6: Fix CALIPSO causing GPF with datagram support

When using CALIPSO with IPPROTO_UDP it is possible to trigger a GPF as the
IP header may have moved.

Also update the payload length after adding the CALIPSO option.

Signed-off-by: Richard Haines <richard_c_haines@btinternet.com>
Acked-by: Paul Moore <paul@paul-moore.com>
Signed-off-by: Huw Davies <huw@codeweavers.com>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>