mptcp: better msk receive window updates

Move mptcp_cleanup_rbuf() related checks inside the mentioned
helper and extend them to mirror TCP checks more closely.

Additionally drop the 'rmem_pending' hack, since commit 87952603
("mptcp: protect the rx path with the msk socket spinlock") we
can use instead 'rmem_released'.

Fixes: ea4ca586

 ("mptcp: refine MPTCP-level ack scheduling")
Signed-off-by: Paolo Abeni <pabeni@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Mat Martineau <mathew.j.martineau@linux.intel.com>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>