drbd: make sure disk cleanup happens in worker context

The recent fix to put_ldev() (correct ordering of access to local_cnt
and state.disk; memory barrier in __drbd_set_state) guarantees
that the cleanup happens exactly once.

However it does not yet guarantee that the cleanup happens from worker
context, the last put_ldev() may still happen from atomic context,
which must not happen: blkdev_put() may sleep.

Fix this by scheduling the cleanup to the worker instead,
using a couple more bits in device->flags and a new helper,
drbd_device_post_work().

Generalized the "resync progress" work to cover these new work bits.

Signed-off-by: Philipp Reisner <philipp.reisner@linbit.com>
Signed-off-by: Lars Ellenberg <lars.ellenberg@linbit.com>