md: add queue limit helpers

Add a few helpers that wrap the block queue limits API for use in MD.

Signed-off-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Reviewed--by: Song Liu <song@kernel.org>
Tested-by: Song Liu <song@kernel.org>
Signed-off-by: Song Liu <song@kernel.org>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20240303140150.5435-5-hch@lst.de