io_uring/net: move connect to always using async data

While doing that, get rid of io_async_connect and just use the generic
io_async_msghdr. Both of them have a struct sockaddr_storage in there,
and while io_async_msghdr is bigger, if the same type can be used then
the netmsg_cache can get reused for connect as well.

Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@kernel.dk>