xprtrdma: Move cqe to struct rpcrdma_mr

Clean up.

- Simplify variable initialization in the completion handlers.

- Move another field out of struct rpcrdma_frwr.

Signed-off-by: Chuck Lever <chuck.lever@oracle.com>
Signed-off-by: Trond Myklebust <trond.myklebust@hammerspace.com>