inet: implement lockless IP_TOS

Some reads of inet->tos are racy.

Add needed READ_ONCE() annotations and convert IP_TOS option lockless.

v2: missing changes in include/net/route.h (David Ahern)

Signed-off-by: Eric Dumazet <edumazet@google.com>
Reviewed-by: David Ahern <dsahern@kernel.org>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>