selftests/bpf: Correctly handle optlen > 4096

Even though it's not relevant in selftests, the people
might still copy-paste from them. So let's take care
of optlen > 4096 cases explicitly.

Signed-off-by: Stanislav Fomichev <sdf@google.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20230511170456.1759459-4-sdf@google.com


Signed-off-by: Martin KaFai Lau <martin.lau@kernel.org>