fuse: check conn_error earlier

fc->conn_error is set once in FUSE_INIT reply and never cleared.  Check it
in request allocation, there's no sense in doing all the preparation if
sending will surely fail.

Signed-off-by: Miklos Szeredi <mszeredi@suse.cz>
Reviewed-by: Ashish Samant <ashish.samant@oracle.com>