net/smc: Add link counters for IB device ports

Add link counters to the structure of the smc ib device, one counter per
ib port. Increase/decrease the counters as needed in the corresponding
routines.

Signed-off-by: Guvenc Gulce <guvenc@linux.ibm.com>
Signed-off-by: Karsten Graul <kgraul@linux.ibm.com>
Signed-off-by: Jakub Kicinski <kuba@kernel.org>