nexthop: Only parse NHA_OP_FLAGS for get messages that require it

The attribute is parsed into 'op_flags' in nh_valid_get_del_req() which
is called from the handlers of three message types: RTM_DELNEXTHOP,
RTM_GETNEXTHOPBUCKET and RTM_GETNEXTHOP. The attribute is only used by
the latter and rejected by the policies of the other two.

Pass 'op_flags' as NULL from the handlers of the other two and only
parse the attribute when the argument is not NULL.

This is a preparation for a subsequent patch.

Signed-off-by: Ido Schimmel <idosch@nvidia.com>
Reviewed-by: David Ahern <dsahern@kernel.org>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20240311162307.545385-2-idosch@nvidia.com
Signed-off-by: Jakub Kicinski <kuba@kernel.org>