md: check for NULL ->meta_bdev before calling bdev_read_only

->meta_bdev is optional and not set for most arrays.  Add a
rdev_read_only helper that calls bdev_read_only for both devices
in a safe way.

Fixes: 6f0d9689

 ("block: remove the NULL bdev check in bdev_read_only")
Reported-by: Guoqing Jiang <guoqing.jiang@cloud.ionos.com>
Signed-off-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@kernel.dk>