drm/i915/psr: Use ->get_aux_send_ctl functions

I just wanted to get rid of the rmw cycle for gen9, but this also
fixes some bugs we haven't carried over, like using recommended
precharge and timeout values.

Also I noticed that we don't set the fastwake sync length on skl, and
that's used by PSR2 selective updates. Fix that.

Cc: Rodrigo Vivi <rodrigo.vivi@intel.com>
Cc: Sonika Jindal <sonika.jindal@intel.com>
Cc: Durgadoss R <durgadoss.r@intel.com>
Cc: "Pandiyan, Dhinakaran" <dhinakaran.pandiyan@intel.com>
Reviewed-by: Ville Syrjälä <ville.syrjala@linux.intel.com>
Tested-by: Ville Syrjälä <ville.syrjala@linux.intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Daniel Vetter <daniel.vetter@intel.com>
Link: http://patchwork.freedesktop.org/patch/msgid/1463590036-17824-6-git-send-email-daniel.vetter@ffwll.ch