bpf, xdp: Extract common XDP program attachment logic

Further refactor XDP attachment code. dev_change_xdp_fd() is split into two
parts: getting bpf_progs from FDs and attachment logic, working with
bpf_progs. This makes attachment  logic a bit more straightforward and
prepares code for bpf_xdp_link inclusion, which will share the common logic.

Signed-off-by: Andrii Nakryiko <andriin@fb.com>
Signed-off-by: Alexei Starovoitov <ast@kernel.org>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/bpf/20200722064603.3350758-4-andriin@fb.com