drm/amdgpu/display: Keep malloc ref to MST port

Just like i915 and nouveau, it's a good idea for us to hold a malloc
reference to the port here so that we never pass a freed pointer to any
of the DP MST helper functions.

Also, we stop unsetting aconnector->port in
dm_dp_destroy_mst_connector(). There's literally no point to that
assignment that I can see anyway.

Signed-off-by: Lyude Paul <lyude@redhat.com>
Reviewed-by: Harry Wentland <harry.wentland@amd.com>
Cc: Daniel Vetter <daniel@ffwll.ch>
Cc: David Airlie <airlied@redhat.com>
Cc: Jerry Zuo <Jerry.Zuo@amd.com>
Cc: Juston Li <juston.li@intel.com>
Link: https://patchwork.freedesktop.org/patch/msgid/20190111005343.17443-12-lyude@redhat.com