netfilter: nft_set_rbtree: .deactivate fails if element has expired

This allows to remove an expired element which is not possible in other
existing set backends, this is more noticeable if gc-interval is high so
expired elements remain in the tree. On-demand gc also does not help in
this case, because this is delete element path. Return NULL if element
has expired.

Fixes: 8d8540c4

 ("netfilter: nft_set_rbtree: add timeout support")
Signed-off-by: Pablo Neira Ayuso <pablo@netfilter.org>
Signed-off-by: Florian Westphal <fw@strlen.de>