bpf: Convert PTR_TO_MEM_OR_NULL to composable types.

Remove PTR_TO_MEM_OR_NULL and replace it with PTR_TO_MEM combined with
flag PTR_MAYBE_NULL.

Signed-off-by: Hao Luo <haoluo@google.com>
Signed-off-by: Alexei Starovoitov <ast@kernel.org>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/bpf/20211217003152.48334-7-haoluo@google.com