tools/net/ynl: Fix extack decoding for netlink-raw

Extack decoding was using a hard-coded msg header size of 20 but
netlink-raw has a header size of 16.

Use a protocol specific msghdr_size() when decoding the attr offssets.

Signed-off-by: Donald Hunter <donald.hunter@gmail.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20240306231046.97158-2-donald.hunter@gmail.com


Signed-off-by: Jakub Kicinski <kuba@kernel.org>