inet: implement lockless IP_MTU_DISCOVER

inet->pmtudisc can be read locklessly.

Implement proper lockless reads and writes to inet->pmtudisc

ip_sock_set_mtu_discover() can now be called from arbitrary
contexts.

Signed-off-by: Eric Dumazet <edumazet@google.com>
Reviewed-by: David Ahern <dsahern@kernel.org>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>