vfio: Replace the DMA unmapping notifier with a callback

Instead of having drivers register the notifier with explicit code just
have them provide a dma_unmap callback op in their driver ops and rely on
the core code to wire it up.

Suggested-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Reviewed-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Reviewed-by: Kevin Tian <kevin.tian@intel.com>
Reviewed-by: Tony Krowiak <akrowiak@linux.ibm.com>
Reviewed-by: Eric Farman <farman@linux.ibm.com>
Reviewed-by: Zhenyu Wang <zhenyuw@linux.intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Jason Gunthorpe <jgg@nvidia.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/1-v4-681e038e30fd+78-vfio_unmap_notif_jgg@nvidia.com


Signed-off-by: Alex Williamson <alex.williamson@redhat.com>