drm/xe: skip rebind_list if vma destroyed

If we are closing a vm, mark each vma as XE_VMA_DESTROYED and skip
touching the rebind_list if this is seen on the eviction path. That way
we can safely drop the vm dma-resv lock on the close path without
needing to worry about racing with the eviction path trying to add stuff
to the rebind_list which can corrupt our contended list, since the
destroy and rebind links are the same list entry underneath.

References: https://gitlab.freedesktop.org/drm/xe/kernel/-/issues/514


Signed-off-by: Matthew Auld <matthew.auld@intel.com>
Cc: Matthew Brost <matthew.brost@intel.com>
Reviewed-by: Rodrigo Vivi <rodrigo.vivi@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Rodrigo Vivi <rodrigo.vivi@intel.com>