btrfs: set delayed item type when initializing it

Currently we set the type of a delayed item only after successfully
inserting it into its respective rbtree. This is fine, as the type
is not used anywhere before that point, but for the next patch in the
series, there will be the need to check the type of a delayed item
before inserting it into a rbtree.

So set the type of a delayed item immediately after allocating it.
This also makes the trivial wrappers for adding insertion and deletion
useless, so it removes them as well.

Reviewed-by: Nikolay Borisov <nborisov@suse.com>
Signed-off-by: Filipe Manana <fdmanana@suse.com>
Reviewed-by: David Sterba <dsterba@suse.com>
Signed-off-by: David Sterba <dsterba@suse.com>