net: add softnet_data.in_net_rx_action

We want to make two optimizations in napi_schedule_rps() and
____napi_schedule() which require to know if these helpers are
called from net_rx_action(), instead of being called from
other contexts.

sd.in_net_rx_action is only read/written by the owning cpu.

Signed-off-by: Eric Dumazet <edumazet@google.com>
Reviewed-by: Jason Xing <kerneljasonxing@gmail.com>
Tested-by: Jason Xing <kerneljasonxing@gmail.com>
Signed-off-by: Paolo Abeni <pabeni@redhat.com>