bcachefs; Fix deadlock in bch2_btree_update_start()

BCH_TRANS_COMMIT_journal_reclaim with watermark != BCH_WATERMARK_reclaim
means nonblocking, and we need the journal_res_get() in
btree_update_start() to respect that.

In a future refactoring we'll be deleting
BCH_TRANS_COMMIT_journal_reclaim and replacing it with an explicit
BCH_TRANS_COMMIT_nonblocking.

Signed-off-by: Kent Overstreet <kent.overstreet@linux.dev>