bcachefs: Ensure srcu lock is not held too long

The SRCU read lock that btree_trans takes exists to make it safe for
bch2_trans_relock() to deref pointers to btree nodes/key cache items we
don't have locked, but as a side effect it blocks reclaim from freeing
those items.

Thus, it's important to not hold it for too long: we need to
differentiate between bch2_trans_unlock() calls that will be only for a
short duration, and ones that will be for an unbounded duration.

This introduces bch2_trans_unlock_long(), to be used mainly by the data
move paths.

Signed-off-by: Kent Overstreet <kent.overstreet@linux.dev>