xfs: complain if anyone tries to create a too-large buffer log item

Complain if someone calls xfs_buf_item_init on a buffer that is larger
than the dirty bitmap can handle, or tries to log a region that's past
the end of the dirty bitmap.

Signed-off-by: Darrick J. Wong <darrick.wong@oracle.com>
Reviewed-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>