virtio: disable notification hardening by default

We try to harden virtio device notifications in 8b4ec69d ("virtio:
harden vring IRQ"). It works with the assumption that the driver or
core can properly call virtio_device_ready() at the right
place. Unfortunately, this seems to be not true and uncover various
bugs of the existing drivers, mainly the issue of using
virtio_device_ready() incorrectly.

So let's add a Kconfig option and disable it by default. It gives
us time to fix the drivers and then we can consider re-enabling it.

Signed-off-by: Jason Wang <jasowang@redhat.com>
Message-Id: <20220622012940.21441-1-jasowang@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Michael S. Tsirkin <mst@redhat.com>
Reviewed-by: Cornelia Huck <cohuck@redhat.com>