inet: introduce inet->inet_flags

Various inet fields are currently racy.

do_ip_setsockopt() and do_ip_getsockopt() are mostly holding
the socket lock, but some (fast) paths do not.

Use a new inet->inet_flags to hold atomic bits in the series.

Remove inet->cmsg_flags, and use instead 9 bits from inet_flags.

Signed-off-by: Eric Dumazet <edumazet@google.com>
Acked-by: Soheil Hassas Yeganeh <soheil@google.com>
Reviewed-by: Simon Horman <horms@kernel.org>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>