xfs: add log item method to return related intents

To apply a whiteout to an intent item when an intent done item is
committed, we need to be able to retrieve the intent item from the
the intent done item. Add a log item op method for doing this, and
wire all the intent done items up to it.

Signed-off-by: Dave Chinner <dchinner@redhat.com>
Reviewed-by: Allison Henderson <allison.henderson@oracle.com>
Reviewed-by: Darrick J. Wong <djwong@kernel.org>
Reviewed-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Signed-off-by: Dave Chinner <david@fromorbit.com>