bpf/xdp: devmap can avoid calling ndo_xdp_flush

The XDP_REDIRECT map devmap can avoid using ndo_xdp_flush, by instead
instructing ndo_xdp_xmit to flush via XDP_XMIT_FLUSH flag in
appropriate places.

Notice after this patch it is possible to remove ndo_xdp_flush
completely, as this is the last user of ndo_xdp_flush. This is left
for later patches, to keep driver changes separate.

Signed-off-by: Jesper Dangaard Brouer <brouer@redhat.com>
Acked-by: Song Liu <songliubraving@fb.com>
Signed-off-by: Alexei Starovoitov <ast@kernel.org>