genetlink: remove userhdr from struct genl_info

Only three families use info->userhdr today and going forward
we discourage using fixed headers in new families.
So having the pointer to user header in struct genl_info
is an overkill. Compute the header pointer at runtime.

Reviewed-by: Johannes Berg <johannes@sipsolutions.net>
Reviewed-by: Jiri Pirko <jiri@nvidia.com>
Reviewed-by: Aaron Conole <aconole@redhat.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20230814214723.2924989-4-kuba@kernel.org


Signed-off-by: Jakub Kicinski <kuba@kernel.org>