bnx2x: new flag for track HW resource allocation

While injecting PCIe errors to the upstream PCIe switch of
a BCM57810 NIC, system hangs/crashes were observed.

After several calls to bnx2x_tx_timout() complete,
bnx2x_nic_unload() is called to free up HW resources
and bnx2x_napi_disable() is called to release NAPI objects.
Later, when the EEH driver calls bnx2x_io_slot_reset() to
complete the recovery process, bnx2x attempts to disable
NAPI again by calling bnx2x_napi_disable() and freeing
resources which have already been freed, resulting in a
hang or crash.

Introduce a new flag to track the HW resource and NAPI
allocation state, refactor duplicated code into a single
function, check page pool allocation status before freeing,
and reduces debug output when a TX timeout event occurs.

Reviewed-by: Manish Chopra <manishc@marvell.com>
Tested-by: Abdul Haleem <abdhalee@in.ibm.com>
Tested-by: David Christensen <drc@linux.vnet.ibm.com>
Reviewed-by: Simon Horman <simon.horman@corigine.com>
Tested-by: Venkata Sai Duggi <venkata.sai.duggi@ibm.com>
Signed-off-by: Thinh Tran <thinhtr@linux.vnet.ibm.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20230818161443.708785-2-thinhtr@linux.vnet.ibm.com
Signed-off-by: Jakub Kicinski <kuba@kernel.org>