fanotify: add BUILD_BUG_ON() to count the bits of fanotify constants

Also define the FANOTIFY_EVENT_FLAGS consisting of the extra flags
FAN_ONDIR and FAN_ON_CHILD.

Signed-off-by: Amir Goldstein <amir73il@gmail.com>
Signed-off-by: Jan Kara <jack@suse.cz>