IB/mlx5: Fix long EEH recover time with NVMe offloads

On NVMe offloads connection with many IO queues, EEH takes long time to
recover. The culprit is the synchronize_srcu in the destroy_mkey. The
solution is to use synchronize_srcu only for ODP mkey.

Fixes: b4cfe447 ("IB/mlx5: Implement on demand paging by adding support for MMU notifiers")
Signed-off-by: Huy Nguyen <huyn@mellanox.com>
Reviewed-by: Daniel Jurgens <danielj@mellanox.com>
Signed-off-by: Leon Romanovsky <leonro@mellanox.com>
Signed-off-by: Jason Gunthorpe <jgg@mellanox.com>