xfs: add tracepoints and error injection for deferred extent freeing

Add a couple of tracepoints for the deferred extent free operation and
a site for injecting errors while finishing the operation.  This makes
it easier to debug deferred ops and test log redo.

Signed-off-by: Darrick J. Wong <darrick.wong@oracle.com>
Reviewed-by: Dave Chinner <dchinner@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Dave Chinner <david@fromorbit.com>