xen-blkfront: atomically update queue limits

Pass the initial queue limits to blk_mq_alloc_disk and use the
blkif_set_queue_limits API to update the limits on reconnect.

Signed-off-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Acked-by: Roger Pau Monné <roger.pau@citrix.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20240221125845.3610668-5-hch@lst.de


Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@kernel.dk>