udp_tunnel: reshuffle NETIF_F_RX_UDP_TUNNEL_PORT checks

Move the NETIF_F_RX_UDP_TUNNEL_PORT feature check into
udp_tunnel_nic_*_port() helpers, since they're always
done right before the call.

Add similar checks before calling the notifier.
udp_tunnel_nic invokes the notifier without checking
features which could result in some wasted cycles.

Reviewed-by: Alexander Duyck <alexanderduyck@fb.com>
Reviewed-by: Jacob Keller <jacob.e.keller@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Jakub Kicinski <kuba@kernel.org>