KVM: MMU: introduce kvm_mmu_flush_or_zap

This is a generalization of mmu_pte_write_flush_tlb, that also
takes care of calling kvm_mmu_commit_zap_page.  The next
patches will introduce more uses.

Reviewed-by: Takuya Yoshikawa <yoshikawa_takuya_b1@lab.ntt.co.jp>
Signed-off-by: Paolo Bonzini <pbonzini@redhat.com>