IB/mlx5: Add HDR speed support to query port

Report HDR speed when HDR is supported in CapabilityMask2 and the actual
speed is HDR.

Signed-off-by: Michael Guralnik <michaelgur@mellanox.com>
Reviewed-by: Majd Dibbiny <majd@mellanox.com>
Signed-off-by: Leon Romanovsky <leonro@mellanox.com>
Signed-off-by: Jason Gunthorpe <jgg@mellanox.com>