libnvdimm/bus: Stop holding nvdimm_bus_list_mutex over __nd_ioctl()

In preparation for fixing a deadlock between wait_for_bus_probe_idle()
and the nvdimm_bus_list_mutex arrange for __nd_ioctl() without
nvdimm_bus_list_mutex held. This also unifies the 'dimm' and 'bus' level
ioctls into a common nd_ioctl() preamble implementation.

Marked for -stable as it is a pre-requisite for a follow-on fix.

Cc: <stable@vger.kernel.org>
Fixes: bf9bccc1 ("libnvdimm: pmem label sets and namespace instantiation")
Cc: Vishal Verma <vishal.l.verma@intel.com>
Tested-by: Jane Chu <jane.chu@oracle.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/156341209518.292348.7183897251740665198.stgit@dwillia2-desk3.amr.corp.intel.com


Signed-off-by: Dan Williams <dan.j.williams@intel.com>