net/mlx5: DR, Add support for Geneve packets SW steering

Add support for SW steering matching on Geneve header fields:
 - VNI
 - OAM
 - protocol type
 - options length

Signed-off-by: Yevgeny Kliteynik <kliteyn@mellanox.com>
Reviewed-by: Alex Vesker <valex@mellanox.com>
Signed-off-by: Saeed Mahameed <saeedm@mellanox.com>