[media] vb2: add debugging code to check for unbalanced ops

When a vb2_queue is freed check if all the mem_ops and queue ops were balanced.
So the number of calls to e.g. buf_finish has to match the number of calls to
buf_prepare, etc.

This code is only enabled if CONFIG_VIDEO_ADV_DEBUG is set.

Signed-off-by: Hans Verkuil <hans.verkuil@cisco.com>
Acked-by: Pawel Osciak <pawel@osciak.com>
Acked-by: Laurent Pinchart <laurent.pinchart@ideasonboard.com>
Signed-off-by: Mauro Carvalho Chehab <m.chehab@samsung.com>