qedr: modify QP state to error when destroying it

Current code didn't modify the QP state to error because it queried the
QP state as a bitmap while it isn't. So the code never got executed.
This patch fixes this and queries for each QP state respectively and not
at once via a bitmask.

Signed-off-by: Ram Amrani <Ram.Amrani@cavium.com>
Reviewed-by: Michal Kalderon <Michal.Kalderon@cavium.com>
Signed-off-by: Doug Ledford <dledford@redhat.com>