net/mlx5: Replace global mlx5_intf_lock with HCA devcom component lock

mlx5_intf_lock is used to sync between LAG changes and its slaves
mlx5 core dev aux devices changes, which means every time mlx5 core
dev add/remove aux devices, mlx5 is taking this global lock, even if
LAG functionality isn't supported over the core dev.
This cause a bottleneck when probing VFs/SFs in parallel.

Hence, replace mlx5_intf_lock with HCA devcom component lock, or no
lock if LAG functionality isn't supported.

Signed-off-by: Shay Drory <shayd@nvidia.com>
Reviewed-by: Mark Bloch <mbloch@nvidia.com>
Reviewed-by: Jacob Keller <jacob.e.keller@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Saeed Mahameed <saeedm@nvidia.com>