io_uring/kbuf: protect io_buffer_list teardown with a reference

commit 6b69c4ab upstream.

No functional changes in this patch, just in preparation for being able
to keep the buffer list alive outside of the ctx->uring_lock.

Cc: stable@vger.kernel.org # v6.4+
Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@kernel.dk>
Signed-off-by: Greg Kroah-Hartman <gregkh@linuxfoundation.org>