can: Proper ctrlmode handling for CAN devices

This patch adds error checking of ctrlmode values for CAN devices. As
an example all availabe bits are implemented in the mcp251x driver.

Signed-off-by: Christian Pellegrin <chripell@fsfe.org>
Acked-by: Wolfgang Grandegger <wg@grandegger.com>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>