rtnetlink: introduce nlmsg_new_large and use it in rtnl_getlink

if a PF has 256 or more VFs, ip link command will allocate an order 3
memory or more, and maybe trigger OOM due to memory fragment,
the VFs needed memory size is computed in rtnl_vfinfo_size.

so introduce nlmsg_new_large which calls netlink_alloc_large_skb in
which vmalloc is used for large memory, to avoid the failure of
allocating memory

    ip invoked oom-killer: gfp_mask=0xc2cc0(GFP_KERNEL|__GFP_NOWARN|\
	__GFP_COMP|__GFP_NOMEMALLOC), order=3, oom_score_adj=0
    CPU: 74 PID: 204414 Comm: ip Kdump: loaded Tainted: P           OE
    Call Trace:
    dump_stack+0x57/0x6a
    dump_header+0x4a/0x210
    oom_kill_process+0xe4/0x140
    out_of_memory+0x3e8/0x790
    __alloc_pages_slowpath.constprop.116+0x953/0xc50
    __alloc_pages_nodemask+0x2af/0x310
    kmalloc_large_node+0x38/0xf0
    __kmalloc_node_track_caller+0x417/0x4d0
    __kmalloc_reserve.isra.61+0x2e/0x80
    __alloc_skb+0x82/0x1c0
    rtnl_getlink+0x24f/0x370
    rtnetlink_rcv_msg+0x12c/0x350
    netlink_rcv_skb+0x50/0x100
    netlink_unicast+0x1b2/0x280
    netlink_sendmsg+0x355/0x4a0
    sock_sendmsg+0x5b/0x60
    ____sys_sendmsg+0x1ea/0x250
    ___sys_sendmsg+0x88/0xd0
    __sys_sendmsg+0x5e/0xa0
    do_syscall_64+0x33/0x40
    entry_SYSCALL_64_after_hwframe+0x44/0xa9
    RIP: 0033:0x7f95a65a5b70

Cc: Yunsheng Lin <linyunsheng@huawei.com>
Signed-off-by: Li RongQing <lirongqing@baidu.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20231115120108.3711-1-lirongqing@baidu.com


Signed-off-by: Jakub Kicinski <kuba@kernel.org>