RDMA/efa: Be consistent with modify QP bitmask

The modify QP bitmask was not consistent with other bitmasks used in the
device interface. Remove the bitmask enum and allow usage with
EFA_GET/SET.

Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20200731060420.17053-3-galpress@amazon.com


Reviewed-by: Firas JahJah <firasj@amazon.com>
Reviewed-by: Yossi Leybovich <sleybo@amazon.com>
Signed-off-by: Gal Pressman <galpress@amazon.com>
Signed-off-by: Jason Gunthorpe <jgg@nvidia.com>