be2net: Fix issues in error recovery due to wrong queue state

During recovery from a FW error, destroy queue operation may fail.
Queue should be marked as destroyed so that recovery code can recreate
the queue. Also fix queue created state not getting checked at one instance.

Signed-off-by: Padmanabh Ratnakar <padmanabh.ratnakar@emulex.com>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>